Emotionally Healthy Partners

       There is also a reason so many of your popular actresses who seemingly had it all look so sad when the man in their life, their "best friend," does not turn out to be who they wanted to believe he was: a loyal and true, emotionally-healthy partner with the ability to truly love them.

       Why is this?

       Because for the most part, with few beautiful exceptions, the current version of men are incapable of truly loving anyone, including themselves.

       To expect something from them that they do not have the ability to give is pure folly on the part of female humans everywhere.

       You want the fairy tale and the best you can have is a few years, perhaps up to a decade, but usually 1-5 years, pretending that your happily ever after is just that.

       Until it ends.

       Leaving you sad-eyed and crushed, and likely with several sad-eyed and crushed children to support.

       Which is easier if you have a movie star salary than for all the millions of you who don't.

       Wake up.

       Continuing to go back to a dry, dirty well for fresh, clean water is an exercise in futility...and you are just muddying your precious Souls by drinking what the violent, betrayal-prone, dick-obsessed Ape Men have to offer.

       And giving them what they want at your own expense will never help them evolve.

       Yes you will have to live without the fairy tale of love and husband, great sex and a great provider, as part of the myth of hearth and home for some generations until men, as a species, either generate their own evolution, or go extinct.

       But you're living without any substantial reality behind that myth now.

       Most of you just haven't wanted to admit it.

       So you allow magazine articles and TV shows and advertising and friends to convince you that you just haven't "met the right one yet."

       The trouble is: there are hardly any men capable of being Mr. Right.

       They will all continue to be Mr. Wrong until they evolve.

       And you can be a true best friend to yourself, to women everywhere, to the planet, and to men...by ceasing to accept the muddy poison of insincere and unsustainable affections.

       Men and women will have to go it alone until the Change has come.

       Well, not alone.

       But not with each other.

       Because you can't change something by staying on the same level of interaction that created it.

Wake up.